Feature Book By Chaithanya Sohan

America Deconstructed

America Deconstructed

America Deconstructed follows the journeys of sixteen immigrants as they maneuver cultural differences and uncomfortable situations while working to find a sense of belonging in their American homes.

Naseer was nine years old when he escaped Taliban and fled Afghanistan; his story chronicles the resilience of a young boy as he travels from Afghanistan to America in quest of the American dream. Another essay showcases the love story of Chidibere and Ifeyinwa and their struggles with language and being true to their African culture in America. Lisian’s story takes us through his journey to America, and frequently being asked where he comes from. Parag describes his journey as a young sixth grader who hid his attraction to boys in conservative India to embracing his sexuality in America.

America Deconstructed tells the story of courage, resilience, and identity from real perspectives of first-generation immigrants and their pursuit of the American Dream.

About the Author Chaithanya Sohan

Chaithanya Sohan

Chaithanya Sohan immigrated to the U.S. from India in 2001. She received a bachelor’s in electrical engineering from San Jose State University and a master’s from Santa Clara University, and now works in Silicon Valley. She began writing for various websites in 2002 and decided to pen “America Deconstructed” in 2013. She has also authored pieces on political issues for One Earth One Mission and www.rethinkreality.com. She enjoys traveling and runs www.nomadicsue.wordpress.com and www.wordspeare.wordpress.com. She and her husband, Denell Hopkins, live in Newark, California, with their daughter, Maya, puppy Zed and her parents.

An Interview with Chaithanya Sohan

Interviewer: The people featured in the book come from all walks of life and countries all over the world. Were you ever surprised by the stories your contributors had to share?

Chaithanya Sohan: What do you say when you hear someone who is your age talk about selling potatoes and egg at the school yard. I had seen these stories in old Bollywood movies, but never knew someone my age could be living that life while my biggest hurdle was getting a certain grade, or not getting my chocolate for the week. I have been surprised, had my jaw drop in complete disbelief and humbled that I was fortunate to live the life I did in India.

Interviewer: In your experience, what is something that makes the cultural transition to America easier? Harder?

Chaithanya Sohan: I think the American experience is a very personal journey and differs from one to the other. For me personally, everyday intricacies were challenging. Dating, going to get coffee, ordering food at the restaurant, etc were challenging. It took me about two years to sort of learn the ropes of American life. The easiest in terms of my transition was fashion, language and food.

Interviewer: What inspired you to pull together these stories? Were the contributors friends before starting the book?

Chaithanya Sohan: As a teenager in America, I always thought my journey was unique. Nobody talked about the everyday challenges one faced. I thought I was unique in not knowing what a frappuccino or cappuccino was at Starbucks. It was when I met Shaima in college that I realized Starbucks might have been my sore spot but it was not unique. I always wanted to write a book, and I researched to see if there was a book like this. I then approached Shaima with the idea, and America Deconstructed was born.

Well between the both of us, we knew most of the contributors. Some were friends,
friends of family, and coworkers. We wanted diversity in the book, and we approached
few people online, expats, bloggers etc to get the diversity we wanted in this book. It was extremely hard to find Caucasians immigrants.

Interviewer: A major theme in the book is acclimating to American culture and creating a new identity in a foreign environment. What can you tell us about this idea of identity and belonging?

Chaithanya Sohan: I have always struggled with the sense of belonging in America. As someone who is born and raised in India, my identity is pretty strong. I don’t see myself as an Indian-American as even my mom does a lot of times. I still identify myself as Indian. Belonging has been a challenge. As someone who still has strong emotional ties to India, and a certified mush ball, I have struggled with the notion of belonging and feeling at home in America. In 2009, I went back to India for the first time since I immigrated to America. As soon as I reached India, I felt the sense of belonging that had always evaded me in America. I feel like I am home when I go back to India and I crave that feeling when I am here. I always thought it was unique to me, but then I interviewed someone from Ghana who had come here when he was younger than I was, and yet the conflicts of belonging was as strong in him as it was in me. I knew then I wasn’t an unicorn.

Interviewer: What advice would you give to new immigrants who are chasing
the American Dream?

Chaithanya Sohan: The American Dream is a slow grind. It takes time and patience. Something as simple as dressing in an American acceptable way can be a slow process. As a tomboy, I used to dress in baggy jeans and big shirts back in India. It took me two years to dress in a mainstream acceptable way. It took two years for my jeans to get tighter and for my big baggy shirt to morph into fashionable tops. It was a slow and gradual process. American Dream can be different for different people. For a young person in college, it could be being accepted.

Interviewer: You refer to your surroundings as “cultural mix-masala.” How do you mix your own culture, your husband’s culture, and California culture?

Chaithanya Sohan: I think this question is for my husband because he lives in a predominately Indian household with my Indian parents. On a serious note, we have been very open, accepting and respectful of each other’s cultures which has made the journey fun. We have formed our own subculture I think which is why I call it a cultural mix-masala. We indianize everything - chilli powder and spices are a staple in every cuisine we make at home. We have strived to take the good in all the cultures and make our own. It has been a normal all my life. As the granddaughter of an Anglo-Indian woman (British ancestry), I grew up in a multicultural household that probably wasn’t the typical Indian family. We have always had our own culture which made assimilating and making our culture in America easy and less daunting.

Interviewer: Your career has been focused on electrical engineering -- how did you get into writing?

Chaithanya Sohan: Electrical Engineering is my bread and butter, writing is chicken soup to my soul if that explains it. As a child, my dad and I would write letters to each other when we had our arguments. He would then critique the letter for grammatical errors. This is how I learned how to write. Years later, writing found me when I did not know how to move on after a tragedy. I began writing poems which one my teachers found in my book, and word spread around my school. I started hosting shows in school, writing for the school magazine, etc. I started freelancing when I came to America and eventually decided to write a book when I started thinking about becoming more professional in the space.

Interviewer: Why do you think it is important for people to hear these
firsthand accounts?

Chaithanya Sohan: These journeys need to be told especially in the political climate today. We always think about immigrants in terms of legal and illegal. We are not condoning illegal immigration in any way. We are trying to show the journeys of the people who call America home. We always think one can reach America and life is all good. It is not always the case. There is a assimilation period, learning a new language,etc that can be very funny yet challenging. Something as simple as a coffee run can be a daunting task.

Interviewer: What are you hoping readers take away from these stories?

Chaithanya Sohan: I am hoping readers can take the book for what it is - a montage of the journeys of people who immigrated to America. I hope they can read the book outside of judgement, laugh, cry and just enjoy the stories for what they are. On a serious note, I am hoping people can become more tolerant the next time they see someone struggle with conversational English or taking time ordering at a restaurant.

 

 

  

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